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Modern dating, decoded.

Honest, practical guides on Gen Z dating, situationships, safety and finding someone real in India.

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Relationships

What Is a Situationship? Meaning, Signs and How to Get Out of One

What does situationship mean? 9 clear signs you're in one, why Indian Gen Z is done with them, and how to turn it into a relationship or walk away.

7 min read
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Gen Z

Gen Z Dating Terms Explained: 30 Slang Words You Need to Know in 2026

Ghosting, breadcrumbing, delulu, pookie, soft launch, nanoship and more: a simple 2026 glossary of Gen Z dating slang with meanings and examples.

8 min read
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Modern dating

Why Is Dating So Hard Right Now? 7 Real Reasons (and What Actually Helps)

One of 2025's top Google dating questions, answered: 7 honest reasons dating feels hard, whether dating apps are worth it in India, and what helps.

8 min read
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Safety

Dating App Safety in India: How to Spot Fake Profiles, AI Bots and Romance Scams

1 in 7 Indians has lost money to a romance scam. How to spot fake dating profiles, AI bots and catfishing, the red flags, and first date safety tips.

8 min read
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Matrimony

How to Ask for Someone's Instagram Without Being Awkward (Dating and Matrimony)

Want their Instagram without sounding creepy? Copy-paste lines for dating apps and matrimony chats, when to ask, and a consent-first way to swap.

6 min read
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Dating tips

21 First Date Ideas in India That Aren't Awkward (Plus 25 Conversation Starters)

Low-pressure first date ideas in India for every budget, from chai walks to street food crawls, plus 25 conversation starters and first date tips.

8 min read